by
Teri_R
@ 03. Aug. 2008. - 01:00:43

Nicola and Nick Patching are close friends of ours. We first met Nicky when she came into the pub we ran and asked for a bar job, that was in 1995. We have been friends ever since. They're a fantastic couple and have two beautiful children Paige & Cameron. Nicky and Lee share the same birthday, though as she often reminds him, he was born ten years before her.
Today they got married and I was honoured to be asked to do a reading during the service. Below is the reading I did. Was so nice to have something to celebrate.
The key to love is understanding…
The ability to comprehend not only the spoken word
But those unspoken gestures,
The little things that say so much by themselves.
The key to love is forgiveness…
To accept each others faults and pardon mistakes
Without forgetting, but with remembering
What you learn from them.
The key to love is sharing…
Facing your good fortune as well as the bad, together.
Both conquering problems, forever searching for ways
To intensify your happiness
The key to love is giving…
Without thought of return,
But with the hope of just a simple smile
And by giving in but never giving up.
The key to love is respect…
Realising that you are two separate people, with different ideas.
That you don’t belong to each other,
You belong with each other, and share a mutual bond.
The key to love is inside us all…
It takes time and patience to unlock all the ingredients.
It is the continual learning process that demands a lot of work….
But the rewards are more than worth the effort…
And that is the key to love!