I fully understand this little mites father not accepting his baby could be snatched away with no one to blame but a cruel twist of fate. SID is a terrible thing and I know my friend when she lost her little boy, 26 years ago, struggled and constantly blamed herself or looked at what had happened in his final days to find a reason.

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