Rotherham Family

Well! I went to the clairvoyant evening. A gentleman called Simon Peters (has been on most Haunted so the advert says). It was held in a local hotel, there were about 130-150 people there, which at £11 a head makes for a tidy nights wage. I can all hear you shouting that old yorkshire saying "How much????"

Before the "show" started Simon advised us all that he only wanted yes, no or i don't know answers and was very amusing in his demonstration of how easy it is to "cold read" a person. The first person he came to, he advised her she had a gentleman sat in the empty chair next to her and went on to come up with various bits of info. To be honest the lady had a face that looked like she was chewing a wasp so it was hard to judge by her reaction if he was right.
He then came to a lady sat with three young girls, he asked "what's wrong with your eyes?" she said nothing. He told her he had a man with him and burst into song, something to do with forgetting his specs, the four of them promptly burst into tears. From the reactions they gave to things he said I think he had convinced them.
He then stood with his back to the audience and was saying "ok, tell me where she is?" he then said 4 rows back 3 seats in. Now depending on which way he went it was either me or a friend of mine. His assistant gave the mike to my friend.
Now for the really really freaky bit!
He held his head and said "I have a young man hear who passed from a massive head injury" My heart started thudding. Annmarie said "no that doesn't mean anything"
He then went on to say he was young, she kept saying no, he said 18,19 or 20 again she said no. I had tears in my eyes and put my hand up. I said I think it's me.
Annmarie passed me the mike and he said:
Bang he had a blow to the head and that was it - I said yes
He said it happened at 23.07 on a Friday night - I said yes
He said they tried to bring him back and managed twice but he was DOA... I'm getting DOA does this make sense? - at this point I could only nod.
He said, it was his time people said it was unfair but you need to understand it was his time - a nod
He said "Hes a lovely lad" I smiled
He said, they said he was young, acting the fool and speeding, but he wasn't, it wasn't his fault. He was going down the road and it turned in fromt of him BANG, he didn't stand a chance - I just nodded
He then said 3 names, Im getting Simon, Adrian and John I said no to the first 2 and yes to the third (my dad and brother are called John)
He then went on to say he was sending love to the three, which I couldn't understand. But I do have 3 children.
He mentioned a woman, at first thought it was me, with heart and breathing problems I said not me but yes I know someone (my mum) He said he is sending healing she will be fine.
He then said he's talking about the pain in you leg, in your hip. Feels like I need to stretch it - I said no. He kept going on then my cousin sat with me said is it me. (she had a car accident and has had hip problems since, she often says "I want to stretch my leg out and pop the joint") he talked to her for a bit and he said don't worry he says you'll be fine.
As he was walking away he came back and looked at my left hand and said "no she's not" and looked puzzled. He said, "why aren't you wearing your ring?" I said I don't he then whispered why, looked embarrassed and said oh we won't go there! He told me the young man said to stop analysing everything, and start going with my heart and he passes his love.
He said, you wanted someone else to come through tonight but they can't, they are in heaven but are not here tonight.
I was an am in total shock.. I write why below:

When I was 11yrs old my brother Barry was killed when a car turned right into a petrol station and didn't see his motorbike coming down the road. He was 17. The acicident happened on a Friday night and he died at 23.07. He suffered fatal head injuries but though they worked on him at the side of the road he was dead on arrival at hospital. The words DOA were repeated often about the crash.
The newspapers blamed him, they said he was young, speeding and said he had been in the pub all night. He had but hadn't been drinking as he and his friends were off camping that night. He was and is described by anyone who knew him as a lovely lad.
Also I am married but don't wear my ring and haven't since my husband had an affair in 1999, we worked through our problems and are together and happy but I have been reluctant to do so, as well as that it is tight! I do analyse things more, I was very, perhaps too trusting and my hubby has done everything to prove he loves me and is sorry for what he did. Perhap it's time I opened my heart a bit.
My mother has heart and breathing problems and we are worried about her at the moment.